![]() So for next trip, I've booked the REALLY, REALLY nice suite on the Strip, and she gets the off-strip sh*thole. Last trip, she wangled a 3-some, and only weakly attempted to contact me, and offered some incredibly lame excuses. We are both in Las Vegas for work quite often (and she doesn't like her "dancing" job.more so with the terrible economy really reducing her income), and I usually get us BOTH nice rooms in Vegas to give us some space and freedom, with an "understanding" that the nice room gives her more opportunity to play, but that I should be included in more interesting activities. She occasionally fails on a "pay for play" rule, and I just don't understand why women miss it so often!Īs I tell her: "Honey, whenever you want to find a guy, a chick, a bi partner, etc.it takes you about 10 feet of walking and 10 seconds of your life to find one, and you usually get free dinner and drinks, too! For me, though, who the hell knows how hard I'll have to work or what I'll have to pay that night to find somebody!" ![]() In our case, though, our relationship is relatively open, non-jealous, and equal (except for our significant difference in age, which also means that she's VERY HOT, but that I have the money!). Lol.I have a partner who's a burgeoning dom, and we have had a very similar problem creep-up in the past. We now return you to your regularly scheduled comments. Sometimes it's her choice kids, that's the lesson for today. If she herself decides on something like that, well that's a different story entirely. Am I supposed to badger her until she submits to a gangbang she doesn't desire so we can sit at the cool table? I bloody well don't think so. Her OPP is her business, not anyone elses. One of the basic principles of sexual freedom is the freedom to make one's own choices. Funny how many self styled hipsters suddenly become conservatives on this point. Time after time, I get the old stink-eye from "real swingers" who assume that I'm a controlling prick for not allowing her to romp freely amongst the tallywhackers. We're active in many "swinger" style activities and get this reaction quite a bit when my girl makes her no-dick-but-mine policy known. So the only way a m/f couple can have a OPP is through the insistence and because of the fears of the male in the equation?
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